You’re sitting on gold

Over the past few weeks, I’ve had dozens of women DM me, book strategy calls, or message me after reading my book to say the same thing in different ways:

“I feel like I have something, but I can’t explain it…”

“I don’t know how to show up online because I’m not sure what I’m even good at…”

“People always come to me for XYZ, but I’ve never thought of it as a ‘thing’.”

And I always smile because I know exactly what’s happening.

You’re sitting on gold.

Not literal gold (though who knows?) but deep, soul-level value. Experience. Skill. Story. Insight. A perspective that can set people free, help them grow, save them time, or change their lives.

But like many brilliant women, you’ve probably been conditioned to overlook it.

So let me break it down for you: 3 Signs You’re Sitting on Gold

1. You dismiss compliments because “everyone can do that.” They can’t. If people are consistently pointing out how calm you make them feel, how clearly you explain things, or how creative your ideas are, pay attention. That’s currency.

2. You feel resistance every time you think about showing up online. Not because you don’t care, but because deep down, you do. The fear of being seen often comes when we’re carrying something meaningful. Something that matters.

3. You have a story or journey that you’ve minimized. If you’ve walked through something hard, rebuilt from scratch, made a pivot, or taught yourself something powerful, it’s not “just life.” That’s lived expertise. That’s your message.

Here’s what I’ve learned from experience:

What you’ve been calling “ordinary” is often the exact thing that will open doors, create impact, and bring income, if you’re willing to say yes to yourself.

That’s what The Big Yes course was built to help you do.

If you’ve been second-guessing your value, dancing around your ideas, or wondering what it would look like to finally show up, this is your time.